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        <![CDATA[ STRESS I really fear for my professional future sometimes. I thought I could handle stress, I&#39;ve handled stress before very well. I am literally forgetting
things, throwing up before work, and just breaking down. I am in sales and things are very bad right now. People are not buying so our management is reacting
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: OT: How do you deal with a job that is constant ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I am in a similar situation at work, too.  *HUGS* Sending you vibes and good thoughts for a new, better job.  Hang in there!
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: OT: How do you deal with a job that is constant ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ The job I have just cut my hours to 10 per week. I work in a diamond jewelry store, sales are WAYYYYYYY down as you can imagine! Same scenario as you are
currently having, rules are changing every day, manager being a butt (but he&#39;s in fear of losing his job as well). It seems like all night every night in
my dreams I was at work so I know it was stressing me out, but not to the point of being physically ill. I think it&#39;s because I know that ALL I CAN DO IS
THE BEST I CAN DO, and I... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I have done the whole throwing up every morning on the way to work thing too. In situations like that you become tough as nails and learn to let crap just roll
right off your back- while you are looking for a different job!
<br>
Seriously, you do what you have to do while you have to do it, but life is really short. Please don&#39;t let a job with dumbass management suck the life out
of you. And you are totally right about it being their issues - if you haven&#39;t read the Four Agreements (... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: OT: How do you deal with a job that is constant ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I read/hear stories like this and get frustrated. My fellow MBA-ers (or anyone w/ a background in Organizational Behavior or HR Generalists) will back me up
here...classic example of poor motivation. I&#39;m sorry you&#39;re suffering at the hands of poor management (yes, you&#39;re allowed to blame them, because
in times like these, they&#39;d know that these tactics don&#39;t work and only decrease employee morale/productivity).
<br>
<br>
FWIW, I&#39;ll just add this. When we research a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 17:10:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Megan, babe, I hope your resume is ready to go.  Better yet, start papering the state of Pennsylvania with it.  Hand it out on street corners, insert it into
bills when you mail them, accidentally leave them in office buildings, whatever.  I think your employer is in trouble because nobody is buying and they will
start laying off people soon.  I get the sneaking suspicion that this might be all over for you a lot sooner than you would really like it to be.  JMHO. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I can so relate to your experience in terms of the anxiety and stress you are facing at work. I was beginning to have nightmares about work. Luckily, I was
working two part-time jobs so I was able to leave the one job that was causing me emotional distress. The problem at that one job was that I was being berated
so my heart goes out to you. I was so happy to read that you have a husband because I am sure he is a great support system for you. My boyfriend lives in
another state and just being... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ You hit the nail on the button - it really ISN&#39;T just you. That is a HUGE step, so give yourself a pat on the back. ((HUGS)) ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I am a decent sales person. I have consistently hit one of my goals every month since January. I can think of spin at 4am. I am usually extremely amazing under
pressure. My internship professor used to tell me that I was like PATTON when the &quot;you know what&quot; hit the fan. This is just...maybe it isn&#39;t just
me. I hate to point fingers, in fact I will blame myself before I blame anyone else ( thus the nervous breakdown) and that is why I feel like such a failure.
<br>
<br>
Yawadah,... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ What I would suggest is probably something you can&#39;t do: Walk Away from THIS job.
<br>
<br>
When you are physically ill, it&#39;s a sign that this is killing you; slowly but surely. Sadly, sales is like that. The attitude of &quot;when they starve,
they&#39;ll  SELL their souls&quot; is the norm and resorting to these type of tactics is common. Everyone has given you much better advice than I; so I&#39;ll
just say good luck and send you lots of hugs.  CJ ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ ITA with NTMM.
<br>
There ARE jobs out there.
<br>
I think there are many that are word of mouth, so get the word out there
<br>
that you are looking and available.
<br>
I also think temping is a wonderful way to test drive a job. I know that so many
<br>
times they do turn into permanent positions.
<br>
<br>
Lots of ((hugs)) and hang in there!
<br>
Nothing is worth the stress and anguish you&#39;re going through. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Great advice above, and trust me, I know stress. Its horrible, truly the worst.
<br>
<br>
Do know this: there ARE jobs out there. My company is laying off people right and left (publishing co. - ad dollars way down), but in the midst of the layoffs,
a few people have been leaving on their own accord.
<br>
<br>
Last year, a coworker was unfairly terminated (long story) and less than a month later, she got a higher paying TEMP JOB that turned into a permanent job, a
raise, and lot of success so... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Megan I feel for you!!  I can completely relate and I know what you&#39;re saying in regards to long term concerns over your mental stability. It&#39;s no
joke, stress is a killer.  I don&#39;t know if you&#39;ve seen &quot;The Proposal&quot; with Sandra Bullock, but there&#39;s a scene where the guy calls his
family to cancel a trip and Sandra (his boss) is standing there and says &quot;Is that your family? Did they tell you to quit?&quot; and he replies -
&quot;Only EVERY SINGLE DAY&quot;.... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ When you wake up in the morning and your first thought is I hate my life, it&#39;s time to walk away. It doesn&#39;t mean you&#39;re a failure, it means
you&#39;re smart enough to know that your mental health isn&#39;t worth going through this. Sales is a tough field in the best of times, but even the
world&#39;s best salesperson can&#39;t sell anything to people who have no money to buy. If you met my husband you&#39;d think he&#39;d be a great salesman.
People told him that for years and he... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I just did. I told myself everyday this helps me afford the things I need - food, a house, clothes, a car. something better will come along. and finally when
it was too bad I decided, if I lose my house, I&#39;ll survive and I quit. my old job the boss would humiliate people all the time, it was cut throat everyone
was always trying to get everyone else fired etc...part of the reason I quit was I felt they were doing things to make me look like the bad guy and could
potentially lead to me... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Hugs to you!! Nothing is more demoralizing than going to bed and knowing you have to wake up and go &#39;back&#39; to that place. I had a brief stint of that
towards the end of the year and it was brutal. You feel like you can&#39;t escape.
<br>
<br>
Not a lot of good advice except to surround yourself with friends who love and support you and hopefully have a good sense of humor. On a dark and morbid side,
at some point getting fired starts looking like fun I suppose.
<br>
<br>
Of all the... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Oh boy!! *HUGS!!!*
<br>
<br>
Last week we had an &#39;incident&#39; that totally relates to what you are talking about... I promise I&#39;ll PM you later &#39;off hours&#39;. But for now,
just be sure to go up for some air every now and then...
<br>
<br>
--Dommy! ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ STRESS I really fear for my professional future sometimes. I thought I could handle stress, I&#39;ve handled stress before very well. I am literally forgetting
things, throwing up before work, and just breaking down. I am in sales and things are very bad right now. People are not buying so our management is reacting
by putting higher goals on us to sell higher priced items. Rules are changing so quickly and if you make a mistake you are publicly berated. I understand that
every job is... ]]></description>

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